RESPECT TO ALL THE INDEPENDENT WOMEN

     Today's post is directed towards the ladies. There is nothing that is sexier than a woman's independence. Been looking at the ladies of this generation and wondering what went wrong with us. Why is the mentality that a man has to take care of you financially, so prevalent? It is such a shame how ladies are being swayed so easily by money. I have seen ladies who have lowered their standards to the point you ask yourself, does she really love herself? Dignity is something that is of paramount importance to us ladies and placing a price on that, will get you on the one-way road to lowering your standards. If you are the type of girl to value a man based on how deep his pockets are, you are a disgrace to the rest of the independent ladies who work their butts off to provide for themselves. I never believed this but now it is becoming quite clear to me, women are the enemies to themselves. Why do I say this? We want a man that is loving, compassionate, caring, values us for our beliefs and stands but we go ahead and lower our standards by being impressed by the worldly. Prioritizing money makes all the other essential characteristics of a good man to lose weight.

      I don't know about you but for myself, I want a relationship where we get to explore each other's minds and souls instead of one which is simply empty. You should seek sustenance in a relationship not something that is ephemeral. Even though some ladies have lost track of this, it dawns on everyone inevitably. Getting to know yourself will make you seek deeper connections than will last. We have placed too much emphasis on correlating money with living a good life that we forget it is happiness within ourselves that we ought to be seeking. Everyone has their own layers, under each layer is something so precious that takes ample time to get through. Do not equate yourself to a quick buy from the shelves of a supermarket. You are worth so much more than you realize. Stop being shallow and treat yourself with respect. You need to understand that you attract what you are. If all that you are looking for is money, you will get it with a shallow man to tag along with it. Valuing worldly possessions above everything else will only take you on a downward spiral. It is not uncommon to hear of relationship breakups that all root from money. Money is essential, that cannot be refuted, but once it comes to surpass all that makes us human, it becomes a god. If you want money, get it yourself. Lazy should not exist in your vocabulary. It is time for women to start appreciating themselves according to what they can do with their intellect not with their bodies. A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is much more attractive that one who waits for a man to validate her existence.