TRUST HAS TO BE EARNED

   You have got to be vigilant about the people you let into your life. Not everyone you share your dreams and goals with will want what is best for you. You need to start evaluating your friends to determine who actually has your best interest. When your circle of friends starts to reduce, maturity starts to kick in. You start to value quality over quantity. That is the way to ensure that the people who are closest to you are the people who you share the same values and goals with. People that will push you to greatness are hard to come by. When you find them, keep them close. It is human nature to want to share your dreams and aspirations with other people. At times we get too excited with what is going on in our lives that we blubber out all your future plans to anybody who will listen to you. This is dangerous. We need to practice a certain level of restraint when it comes to sharing what is important to us. 90% of the time the people that we associate with do not want us to succeed. Some are jealous, others don't want you to progress more than them, others just don't care. Learn how to read people basing it on your interactions with them. 

   Good energy and bad energy do not mix. The more you tell the wrong people about your future plans and private life, the more that positive energy will dissipate into oblivion. You block yourself from progress. Be mindful that the more information you give to people the more likely that that information will be used against you at the worst possible time. Knowing who can and cannot be trusted is crucial and it is an intuition that you need to perfect. Trust is one of the hardest things to rebuild once it is broken. Do not put yourself in a situation where you set yourself up for disappointment. For you to find the right people to trust, you need to be trustworthy yourself. Don't expect people to give you something that you cannot give back. If you ever feel that you are starting to doubt someone's trustworthiness, pay close attention to their actions. People often reveal their true nature unconsciously through what they do. The actions will tell you everything that you need to know. Relationships, partnerships and friendships can't work if there is no trust. 

   You do not owe everyone your full honesty when it comes to what you do in private. This does not mean that you keep everything bottled up inside you. Good people exist and those are the people that you should be attracting into your life. They are quite few.  If you cannot trust someone trust your gut, it is your gift from God. From experience, some of the best moments in life are the ones  you can't tell anyone about.